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Assisted living costs What the base rate covers and what gets added
Updated September 2026
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TL;DR: Two advertised rates are not comparable until you see what each community includes. Several states make them write it down: Texas Form 3647, Minnesota's uniform checklist, Washington's disclosure form. Ask for that document before the tour, then price your parent's actual needs against it.
Assisted living runs a national median of $6,200 a month, per CareScout's 2025 Cost of Care Survey. That figure is a base rate. A higher care level, incontinence care and transportation to appointments can be billed on top of it.
CareScout puts the annual equivalent at $74,400 and says the 2025 median rose 5% from $5,900 the year before. The survey ran from July through November 2025 and drew 4,944 completed responses from licensed assisted living communities. On the same page, CareScout warns that the cost for any particular provider may differ significantly from the median for similar providers in your location.
So the median sets the scale of the money involved. What your parent's community will bill is a different number, and so is the rate a tour guide quotes on the day. The number that matters is built from three things: the base rate, the care level a nurse assigns your parent, and whatever the community bills separately. The base rate is the only one of the three a brochure will tell you.
Base rates are set by state rules and by each community
Assisted living is licensed state by state. Texas, Washington and Minnesota each write their own rules for what a licensed facility has to tell a prospective resident about its services, and each writes them differently. What a community must tell you before you sign depends on where your parent lives. What it charges is its own decision.
Several states close that gap with a mandatory disclosure document. Texas makes every licensed assisted living facility complete HHSC Form 3647, the Assisted Living Disclosure Statement, and give copies to anyone who asks about the facility. The form's stated purpose is to give prospective residents and families consistent categories of information so they can compare facilities and services. One of its questions is simply: what services or amenities are included in the base rate?
Texas puts the same services on both sides of that line
The obvious way to write this section is two lists, one headed included and one headed extra. Form 3647 makes that impossible, and the reason it does is the most useful thing on the form. Form 3647 section C asks what is included in the base rate. Its checklist offers meals, housekeeping, an activities program, incontinence care, temporary use of a wheelchair or walker, barber or beauty shop, special diet, personal laundry, select menus, a licensed nurse a stated number of days per week, injections, and transportation. Section D then asks what additional services can be purchased and offers beauty or barber services, incontinence care, incontinence products, injections, a companion, transportation to doctor visits, minor nursing services provided by facility staff, and home health services.
Incontinence care, injections, transportation and salon services appear on both of those lists. Each can be inside the base rate at one Texas facility and sold separately at another. The state's own form is built to let each facility say which. The line between included and extra is drawn facility by facility, and the form makes each facility state where it drew it. A family comparing two communities on their advertised monthly figures is comparing two bundles that happen to share a price format.
Two other states publish the same idea in different packaging. Washington's assisted living statute, RCW 18.20.300, requires a licensed facility to disclose the scope of care and services it offers on a standardized department form, to residents and to interested consumers on request. A facility certified for memory care has to add a disclosure describing staffing coverage, including how many awake staff are available overnight. Minnesota has required every assisted living facility since August 1, 2021 to produce a Uniform Disclosure of Assisted Living Services and Amenities, the UDALSA or uniform checklist. It lists the license held, the services offered, the services the facility could provide under its license but does not, staffing levels, which funding sources it accepts, and its amenities.
If your parent's state has one of these documents, it is standardized, and the community has to hand it over when someone asks. Ask for it by name.
Care levels change the monthly number after move-in
Communities price the care separately from the room. Form 3647 puts the question to the facility in one line, section E: do you charge more for different levels of care, yes or no. The charge does not exist until someone assesses the resident, so a brochure cannot carry it.
The assessment produces a service plan, and the plan is where the price is set. Form 3647 asks Texas facilities who takes part in that process. It lists the resident, a family member, the manager, licensed nurses, attendants, a social worker, dietary staff, the activity director and the physician as possible participants. It also asks whether the plan addresses medical needs, nursing needs, activities of daily living, psychosocial status, nutritional status and dental services. A family member is on the participant list. Ask to be there.
The plan a community writes at move-in is not the plan it bills against a year later. Form 3647 asks how often the service plan is assessed and offers monthly, quarterly, annually, as needed, or other. A community that reassesses monthly can move a resident to a higher care level, and a higher price, at any point. Ask which schedule the community uses, and what a level change would cost.
Move-in deposits are a contract question with five parts
Form 3647's admission section puts five money questions to the facility in one place. The first three are whether there is a deposit in addition to rent, whether that deposit is refundable, and when it is refundable. It also asks whether there is a refund policy if the resident does not stay for the entire prepaid period, and whether there is a trial period for new residents. The same section asks whether the facility has a written contract for services.
Those five questions are worth asking in any state, whatever the community calls the charge. Assisted living contracts also carry discharge terms. Form 3647 asks facilities to list what could cause a permanent discharge, and the checkbox list includes needing 24-hour nursing care, injections, assistance transferring to and from a wheelchair, bowel or bladder incontinence care, feeding by staff, oxygen administration, intravenous therapy and special diets. Read that list before paying a deposit that is not refundable.
Memory care carries its own disclosure and its own staffing numbers
A secured dementia unit inside an assisted living community is not the base product with a surcharge. Washington requires a facility certified as a memory care facility or unit to publish an additional disclosure covering staffing coverage, including the number of awake overnight staff and the regular direct care staffing level per bed. The facility also has to tell residents and their representatives about significant staffing changes within 30 days. Texas requires a facility that advertises, markets or promotes memory care services to complete a second disclosure statement, Form 3650, on top of Form 3647.
Two disclosure documents mean two sets of answers to compare, one for the community and one for its memory care unit. Our guide to memory care vs. assisted living works through what the difference means for a family's choice. If the obstacle is price and not care level, a board and care home is a smaller licensed setting worth pricing alongside it.
Medicare covers skilled nursing, which is a different service
Medicare Part A covers skilled nursing facility care on a short-term basis. Medicare.gov sets out the conditions. They are a qualifying inpatient hospital stay of at least 3 days in a row, and entry to a Medicare-certified facility generally within 30 days of leaving the hospital. The facility stay also needs days remaining in the benefit period and a provider decision that daily skilled care is needed. Time spent under observation or in the emergency room before admission does not count toward the 3 days.
Two exceptions sit on that same page. A patient may not need the 3-day inpatient stay if their doctor participates in an Accountable Care Organization approved for a Skilled Nursing Facility 3-Day Rule Waiver, and Medicare Advantage plans may also waive the 3-day minimum. Medicare.gov's own instruction is to ask the doctor or hospital staff whether Medicare will cover the stay.
For 2026, Medicare.gov gives the skilled nursing facility cost sharing per benefit period as $0 a day for days 1 to 20 after the $1,736 deductible, $217 a day for days 21 to 100, and all costs from day 101. Part A coverage is limited to 100 days per benefit period. None of that is assisted living. The National Institute on Aging, in guidance reviewed in October 2023, says professional care in assisted living facilities and continuing care retirement communities is almost always paid for out of pocket.
Medicaid may pay for services in some states, never for room and board
NIA's wording on Medicaid and assisted living is careful and worth keeping: in some states, Medicaid may cover some costs for people who are eligible. Which states, which costs and which eligibility rules are set state by state. The answer for your parent comes from your parent's state Medicaid agency and not from any national article, this one included.
One federal rule shapes every version of the answer. Medicaid.gov, describing institutional long term care, says the comprehensive care in an institution includes room and board, and that other Medicaid services are specifically prohibited from including room and board. Assisted living is not on Medicaid's list of institutional benefits. So where a state does cover assisted living services through Medicaid, the rent and meals portion sits outside that coverage.
If a parent's resources are limited, the state agency and an elder law attorney are the two calls to make. Our page on how to pay for assisted living covers what options exist when the numbers do not add up.
Veterans pension pays a ceiling, not a flat monthly amount
Aid and Attendance rates are published as annual ceilings, not as monthly payments, which is the first thing to get straight before comparing them with a monthly bill. The numbers, from VA's current rate table effective December 1, 2025, with a 2.8% cost-of-living increase: the maximum annual pension rate with Aid and Attendance is $29,093 for a veteran with no dependents. It is $34,488 for a veteran with one dependent, and $46,143 for two veterans married to each other who both qualify. For a surviving spouse with no dependents it is $18,697, and $22,304 with one dependent. Divided by twelve, the veteran-with-no-dependents ceiling is about $2,424 a month, which is our arithmetic.
VA's own explanation is that it bases the payment on the difference between income for VA purposes and the maximum annual pension rate that Congress sets, so a veteran with other income receives less than the ceiling. Non-reimbursed medical expenses may reduce income for VA purposes. VA's rate table says only the amount above 5% of the MAPR amount is deductible, and gives that threshold as $872 for a veteran with no spouse or child. From December 1, 2025 to November 30, 2026 the net worth limit for Veterans Pension eligibility is $163,699.
The service test has three branches, and which one applies depends on when service began, and on whether the veteran served as an officer. VA requires no dishonorable discharge, income and net worth within the limits, and one of three service conditions. The first is at least 90 days of active duty with at least 1 day during wartime, for service beginning before September 8, 1980. The second is at least 24 months or the full called period, with at least 1 day during wartime, for enlisted personnel who started after September 7, 1980. The third is no previous active duty of at least 24 months with at least 1 day during wartime, for an officer who started after October 16, 1981.
There is also an age or disability test, and a veteran has to meet one of its four conditions. Those are 65 or older, permanently and totally disabled, a patient in a nursing home for long-term care because of a disability, or receiving Social Security Disability Insurance or Supplemental Security Income. Aid and Attendance itself is added on top of a pension. It goes to a veteran who needs another person's help with daily activities, has to stay in bed or spend a large portion of the day in bed because of illness, is in a nursing home due to disability, or has severely limited eyesight.
On timing, VA says only that it processes claims in the order received unless a claim requires priority processing. Its Aid and Attendance page gives no processing time beyond that, so a budget should not assume one. On cost, VA states that the services an accredited Veterans Service Organization representative provides on VA benefit claims are always free, while an accredited attorney or claims agent may charge fees. Our guide to VA benefits for elder care covers the forms in more detail. This is a benefits question, not legal advice. An accredited representative is the person to ask about a specific claim.
Long-term care insurance: what federal tax law calls chronically ill
NIA describes long-term care insurance as covering services and support for people needing long-term care, including help with activities of daily living, in settings that include the person's home, an assisted living facility or a nursing home, with the exact coverage depending on the policy. Its instruction to policyholders is to understand what the policy does and does not cover and how long benefits last.
Federal tax law supplies the standard behind a qualified long-term care insurance contract. IRS Publication 502 for 2025 defines a chronically ill individual as someone a licensed health care practitioner has certified within the previous 12 months. The certification is either that the person cannot perform at least two activities of daily living without substantial assistance for at least 90 days due to loss of functional capacity, or that they need substantial supervision to be protected from threats to health and safety due to severe cognitive impairment. Publication 502 lists the six activities: eating, toileting, transferring, bathing, dressing and continence.
The same publication also addresses meals and lodging. Costs of medical care in a nursing home, home for the aged or similar institution can be included in medical expenses, and that includes meals and lodging if a principal reason for being there is to get medical care. Where the reason for being there is personal, the meals and lodging are not includable but the part of the cost that is for medical or nursing care may be. Whether any of that applies to a particular family is a question for a tax professional, and the answer turns on facts the IRS text does not decide in advance.
Price your parent's actual needs before the first tour
Everything above collapses into one working method. Write down what your parent needs before anyone quotes you a number, then make each community price that list.
- List the daily activities your parent needs help with, using the six the IRS names: eating, toileting, transferring, bathing, dressing, continence.
- List the medications, the times of day, and who administers them now.
- Ask each community for its state disclosure document by name, before the tour if the state has one.
- Ask what is in the base rate and what is sold separately, item by item, against your list.
- Ask whether the community charges more for different levels of care, and which level your parent would likely be assigned.
- Ask how often the service plan is reassessed, and who takes part.
- Ask about the deposit, the refund conditions, the prepaid-period refund policy and any trial period.
- Ask what needs would trigger a discharge, and get the list.
A placement or referral service can shorten the search. Ask any such service, in writing, who pays its fee and what happens to your inquiry if you visit a community it does not work with. If you are still weighing settings rather than communities, our comparison of in-home care vs. assisted living covers how families actually make that decision.
One call is worth making before any of this. State Health Insurance Assistance Programs offer one-on-one Medicare counseling from what their national center calls a trusted, unbiased source, and NIA lists the national number as 877-839-2675. SHIP counselors cover what Medicare does and does not pay for in your parent's situation; they do not price assisted living communities.
Frequently Asked Questions
How much does assisted living cost per month?
CareScout's Cost of Care Survey puts the 2025 national median for an assisted living community at $6,200 per month, or $74,400 a year, a 5% rise over its 2024 median of $5,900. CareScout says on the same page that the cost for any particular provider may differ significantly from the median for similar providers in your location. Treat the median as a planning anchor, not a quote, and ask each community for its own base rate in writing.
Does Medicare pay for assisted living?
Medicare Part A covers skilled nursing facility care, which is a different service from assisted living. Medicare.gov lists the conditions: a qualifying inpatient hospital stay of at least 3 days in a row, entry to the facility generally within 30 days of leaving the hospital, and a provider decision that daily skilled care is needed. The National Institute on Aging says professional care in assisted living facilities is almost always paid for out of pocket. Coverage questions about a specific parent go to that parent's plan or to a State Health Insurance Assistance Program counselor at 877-839-2675.
Is the assisted living move-in deposit refundable?
It depends on the contract, which is why the question belongs in writing before anyone signs. Texas HHSC Form 3647, the disclosure statement every licensed assisted living facility in that state must complete, asks the facility three separate questions: whether there is a deposit in addition to rent, whether it is refundable, and when. It also asks whether the facility has a refund policy if the resident does not stay for the entire prepaid period, and whether there is a trial period for new residents. Ask all five of those questions of any community, in any state, and get the answers on paper.
Can veterans get help paying for assisted living?
Some can, through Veterans Pension with Aid and Attendance, and the amounts are larger than many families assume. Under the rates effective December 1, 2025, VA's maximum annual pension rate with Aid and Attendance is $29,093 for a veteran with no dependents, $34,488 with one dependent, $46,143 for two married veterans who both qualify, and $18,697 for a surviving spouse with no dependents. Those are ceilings, not payments: VA pays the difference between income for VA purposes and the maximum rate, so the monthly check is smaller when there is other income. Eligibility, service periods and the net worth limit are set out on VA.gov, and accredited Veterans Service Organization representatives help with claims for free.
What does the care level assessment mean for assisted living costs?
Communities price a resident's care separately from the room, and the assessment sets that price. Texas HHSC Form 3647 asks each licensed facility to answer one direct question, do you charge more for different levels of care, and to state how often the service plan is reassessed: monthly, quarterly, annually, as needed, or other. Both answers change the monthly bill, and the second one is the reason a rate quoted at move-in is not a fixed rate. Ask for the community's answer to both before comparing it with anywhere else.
The information on this page is for educational purposes only and does not constitute medical, legal, or financial advice. Every family's situation is different. Please consult a qualified healthcare provider, licensed attorney, or certified financial planner for guidance specific to your circumstances.